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Military Men and the Domme
Who Loves Them
By Mistress Ren
I have quite a few 'fetishes' that get my mojo running......dark
hair, brown or hazel eyes, baby faces on big strong men, and guys with a sense
of controlled recklessness - which would probably explain my fascination with
Steve Irwin (as you all know from one of my previous writings...), and my
extreme attraction to my own dear lafayette. :)
But the one 'fetish' I'm most known for - the one that really catches my
attention and has made me infamous as well...is my proclivity for military men.
Everyone thinks it's the uniforms that strike my fancy - and I admit - that is a
part of it…but the main attraction isn't the clothing…it's the entire package….
First off, like the Old Guard in which I was trained, the military - regardless
of branch - is steeped in traditions and protocols. In fact, Old Guard is itself
based upon military protocols. For this reason, working with military men is
much more satisfying as far as submissive training goes, as military men tend
not to question orders and have better finesse and stamina when it comes to
falling into and maintaining positions.
Military men who are submissives also know how to respect a lady - especially a
lady of the Dominant persuasion who could possibly hold power (or rank) over
them. :) The words 'Yes Ma'am," and "No Ma'am" roll off their lips as easily as
the breath they have drawn, and their respect of the lady in control is no
different from that they have given their superior officers.
And then…there's the attitude of military men. :) You see, military men are
unlike other guys (sorry!). Military men are disciplined, controlled, steadfast
in dangerous situations, and yet, upon command, can be aggressive and decisive.
They have quick reflexes, extensive knowledge weapons (always appealing to a
whip wielding Dominant), and the attitude that nothing will break them or cause
them to crumble, cry, or beg for mercy - least of all, a five foot tall female
Domme…..
And therein, folks, lies - for me - the great attraction. <wicked evil grin>
Because there is nothing I like better than breaking big strong men who raise me
to the challenge. :)
A long time ago, when I discovered my love of military men, I decided upon a
lofty self-challenge - to Dominate all branches of the United States Armed
Forces. It all began with my first partner - a Dominant (I began my training as
a submissive), and an executive officer in the Coast Guard. He made the grievous
mistake one evening of offering up his body to me while I was undergoing my
Dominant training….and I quickly discovered just how much of a thrill it was to
reduce a big strong soldier to tears and begging!. :)
At the same time, I was topping a male friend who happened to be a lieutenant in
the Navy and a former Merchant Marine. He was a good foot taller than I, with
wide shoulders and a brash New York attitude that rivaled his officer cockiness.
He was the first to openly declare that I'd 'never break him' and he'd 'never
beg.' Within a few intensive hours of sensual Domination - and repeated refusals
to allow him release - he did both. :)
My next military conquest was a Marine stationed in Bangor, Maine. He was a
Master Sergeant in the Corps with almost 20 years of continuous service. He was
not only well trained in hand-to-hand combat, but also in prisoner of war
survival tactics. He presented new challenges, as floggers, canes - even
singletails - didn't faze him or even cause him to flinch. He would grin evilly
and tell me that he'd wear me out long before he'd crumble. A combination of
refusal of release and threats of using the 'zipper' soon had him putty in my
hands.
My Marine was followed by two friends - one a former Marine who was a MP in the
Maine Army National Guard, and the other a Petty Officer in the Navy. Both were
happy to assist me with my 'mission,' as by this time, it was starting to become
widely known. :) My guardsman friend and I had a brief play stint one evening
when I was traveling, and Navy friend - a Dominant at heart - came to me to
learn about the 'other side' (being submissive) in order to better understand
the mindset and emotions of his submissive partner. While I did not need to
'conquer' them, each provided me with wonderful play experiences, and a couple
more notches in my flogger belt. :)
Then, came my dear lafayette. lafayette is a former Coast Guard Specialist and
member of the New Hampshire Army National Guard, where he also attended Officer
Candidate School. He is probably one of the cockiest guy I've ever met, and he's
all attitude….he'll gladly use his command of 'sailor's language' to put anyone
who crosses him in their place….but, he's completely submissive to me. Within
him, I get the joy of a well-trained soldier, along with the devotion and love
of a dedicated D/s partner. I've also gotten much, much more, as he is my
husband as well. :) when we met, he was ready to embrace submission, and thus, I
didn't have to fight for his reactions…but he fulfills my military desires with
his controlled bearing, his command of protocols, and his respect of my
authority.
Not too long ago, I took stock of my mission, and - having corrupted members of
the Army, Navy, Marines, and Coast Guard - I realized that one branch was
missing….the Air Force. Hmmmm, I wondered…..how was I going to accomplish my
Dominant goal?? Hanscom Air force Base in New Hampshire was closed, along with
every other Air force base in NE…….and, I didn't know any submissive in the USAF.
:(
I had given up hope - after all, it seemed kind of tacky to me to just advertise
for a USAF submissive. So I decided to be content with my accomplishments and
live life out happy to have been blessed with so many great partners in my life.
Life went on, and lafayette and I happily began advertising for an occasional
male playmate.
Along came B….a firefighter EMT (I seem to be collecting those of late…), who
has the potential to be an occasional partner. During our many discussions as
lafayette and I placed him into consideration, he casually mentioned that he had
been a member of the Armed Forces…..you guessed it! The Air Force! :) So, we put
him through the paces one evening, and I am now pleased to say that my military
mission is fulfilled!
People have asked me if - now that I've conquered the American Military - I will
lose interest in men in uniform. I doubt it. There are so many aspects of
Military men that are dear to my heart….their attitudes, love of formality,
protocols and etiquette, and their desire to serve and please female a
Dominant…which rivals or even surpasses their desire to serve and please their
superior officers. What Domme could pass on such wonderful attributes?
Besides….what better way for me to 'serve' my country than to keep our brave
boys in uniform happy? :)
Mistress Ren
(copyright, 2004 - may not be reprinted without permission)
Page Updated
08/27/05
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