BDSM Resume for submissives
When first meeting or contacting a Dominant, sometimes the easiest way to make a
preliminary introduction is with a resume – similar to that you would use for a
job interview.
Below is a sample resume, filled out to give some ideas.
A blank copy can be found further down on the page and copied for your use.
This resume is not intended to take the place of conversation and negotiation.
It is to be used as a starting tool to determine compatibility.
SAMPLE BDSM Resume
Text in teal are sample answers only.
~~ submissive Resume ~~
Personal Information
Scene name/name: seekingsub
Sex: male
my age: 30 years old
BDSM role: submissive – will
switch if ordered
Orientation: heterosexual
Location: Portland, Maine
Marital status: divorced
and dating
Physical attributes: 5’11”,
200 lbs., brown hair, blue eyes, in good physical shape
Disease free: yes
Last tested: 7-1-05
Practice safe sex: yes
Smoker/non-smoker:
non-smoker
Alcohol/drug use: 1-2 beers a day,
drug free
Medical conditions/disabilities:
left knee injury
Allergies: none
Optional Information
Name: matt
Occupation: firefighter
Other interests/hobbies: Cooking,
badminton, Pez dispenser collector.
A little bit about myself: i was
born in Oklahoma, where i lived most of my life. i moved to Portland five years
ago. i enjoy cooking and i especially enjoy working with chocolate.
BDSM Information
What i seek: i seek a Domme
interested in the softer sides of BDSM, who would like an occasional submissive
partner for physical and mental enjoyment as well as social companionship.
Years interested in submission:
since I was a teen
Time actively involved in BDSM:
2 years
BDSM interests: bondage, sensual
flogging, light humiliation, spanking, nipple torture
Hard limits: scat, watersports,
needleplay, breathplay, tickling
Soft limits: caning, cbt,
crossdressing
Safewords: yes
Groups i belong to or Munches i attend:
CUFSmaine, ALUR, NELA
Classes/seminars/training i have received:
basic submission, roleplay, French cooking
Special skills: massages,
pedicures, manicures, carpentry, auto mechanics, cooking
Why I should be considered:
I am an extremely attentive submissive who excels at personal service and enjoys
pampering my Mistress.
BDSM references:
sarahsub@hotmama.com,
BBQMaster@whoozit.com,
perkyplaything@hubbahubba.com
My email:
seekingsub@woohoomail.com
submissive
Resume
Personal
Information
Scene name/name:
Sex:
my age:
BDSM role:
Orientation:
Location:
Marital status:
Physical attributes:
Disease free:
Last tested:
Practice safe sex:
Smoker/non-smoker:
Alcohol/drug use:
Medical conditions/disabilities:
Allergies:
Optional Information
Name:
Occupation:
Other interests/hobbies:
A little bit about myself:
BDSM Information
What i seek:
Years interested in submission:
Time actively involved in BDSM:
BDSM interests:
Hard limits:
Soft limits:
Safewords:
Groups i belong to or Munches i attend:
Classes/seminars/training i have received:
Special skills:
Why I should be considered:
BDSM references:
My email:
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10/26/05
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